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How can I teach my son to drink through a straw and/or spit?

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Springfield, VA

We've tried teaching our son to drink through a straw but he wants to just bite it, and then widen his mouth (like for a sippy cup) and then the liquid just runs back out of his mouth. Part of the challenge here is that he doesn't like most drinks. Prefers water above everything, and it takes a little to a lot of coaxing for milk or juices. So there isn't any incentive to drink through a straw. We've tried hard ones but they still are small. Maybe we need to try bubble tea straws? Anyone have… read more

July 27, 2012
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Members shared creative strategies for teaching a child to drink through a straw, with the most popular method being to dip a short straw into... Read more

Members shared creative strategies for teaching a child to drink through a straw, with the most popular method being to dip a short straw into liquid, plug the top with a finger, and release small amounts into the child's mouth to help build the motor skill through repetition. Several members suggested making it playful by blowing bubbles in milk, squeezing juice boxes to start the flow, using specialty cups that transition from pouring to sucking, and gradually increasing difficulty with thicker liquids like milkshakes once the skill is mastered. A recurring theme was patience and reassurance, with many sharing that their own children took months or even years to master straws and spitting, and that working with occupational or speech therapists on oral motor development made a meaningful difference.

A MyAutismTeam Member

My son started drinking from a straw at age 1. We bought him a juice box that comes with the really tiny straws. We put the straw into his mouth and pushed on the juice box to get things going. He then took the juice box from us and it just started pouring juice into his mouth. He got the idea.

July 27, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

Bubble tea straws are larger straws which will require more suction. They say to go smaller and thinner.

January 17, 2018
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank you for all of the feedback! I had some partial success cutting down a straw so he had less sucking to do to get what he wanted. That was a great suggestion. He still wants to bite down on it though, so I may need to try cutting hard straws down. We're starting a weekly joint OT/ST session in September so maybe they'll have some suggestions, too.

August 10, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son, now 7, didn't really use a straw until he was 5 and a half or so. He also mainly likes water and that's really great! I know tons of kids that won't drink water at all and it really is the best for you. We would try straws from time to time, but not push it as he wasn't ready.
Spitting took a while too, but once he did get the hang of it, he wanted to spit all the time. We brushed our teeth together and modeled it for him also. I think that helped a lot. We made a "puh" sound as we spit and he loved that.
We used non floride toothpaste until he could spit. Well, we still do as he still swallows some of it. Good luck!

July 27, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

Crazy straw is a good idea. Blowing bubbles in milk is always fun too. The concept of blowing is the reverse of sucking and he will need to secure his lips on the straw to blow bubbles. Then you can teach him to reverse it. Just my thoughts.Spitting is a different one, but I would satrt with a piece of paper and get him to "blow" it out of his mouth (spitball style)

July 27, 2012

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