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What Is A Better Way To Respond To People Who Think They Are Specialists In ASD When Neither They Or Their Kids Have ASD?
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Iā€™m asking because I have a long time friend, love her to death, but we were on the phone for a very long time when Aziel and his ASD became the next topic to talk about. She kept asking me, ā€œwhat coping strategies do we have in place for when he canā€™t ā€˜stimā€™?ā€ She kept on with using scenarios that do not apply to my kid. I was getting irritated but my deep breaths and trying to understand kept me from getting mad. However, she began stating that there will be a time where he wonā€™t be able toā€¦ read more

A MyAutismTeam Member

I find the well-meaning incorrect advice and the judging of my parenting and the lack of understanding frustrating in my social circle as well. I just remind myself that they can't relate, becauseā€¦ read more

Does Your Child Struggle With Anger Issues?
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When I was around eight years old, I began to have anger issues. I had outbursts, would call people names, and would even hit others. It came to a head when I slapped my grandmother in front of my family. My mother took me to a therapist and after three or so months I was much better. She didn't conclude I was Autistic for some reason, but that's a whole other story.

A MyAutismTeam Member

My son avoids conflict. He only hits himself if he's stressed out & overwhelmed. He's never had any angry outbursts or anything like that. I try to keep a very positive, calm & relaxing environmentā€¦ read more

Siblings
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How do you explain to your 8yr that his baby brother has autism, and that he canā€™t be mean to him when he doesnā€™t listen or destroys his stuff. We havenā€™t started ABA therapy yet, and itā€™s a recent diagnosis so weā€™re all adjusting to this new life style for our little guy.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank you guys for the help! And the amazing advice! I will probably have a ton more questions so I hope Iā€™m not bothering anyone with all of them!

How Can You Deal With A Toddler And Picky Eating?
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My son used to eat almost everything. But now there is a new item that he just doesn't want to eat. I am runing out of ideas ( also patience, is very frustrating because he is starting to lose weight).
Any advise?šŸ˜”

A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank you for the tip

Does Anyone Have Tips To Help Stop Self Injuring Behavior?
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My 3 year old hits himself when frustrated and will also hit his head on the wall or floor or anything he can. I thought about getting him a safety helmet but he wouldnt tolerate it because he hates things on his head

A MyAutismTeam Member

Thats great i have that too in her bedroom kinda made her room a sensory friendly room but unfortunately for my kid it doesn't help lol :) its ok tho i bought expensive crash pad didn't help eitherā€¦ read more

How Do You Stop Autistic Child To Hit?
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My Non verbal Autistic daughter tries to hit other kids... how do i stop that?

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Couldnt agree more

How Often Does Your ASD Kid/adult Attention Seek? What Unique Ways Do They Exhibit It?
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TBHā€” I want a comparison. I guess I want to stop ignoring attention seeking just because of my emotions.

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My (4) year old has limited verbal skills, but she knows "Mommy" and she will yell it at the top of her lungs if she loses sight of me. If I don't respond right away she escalates. Its incrediblyā€¦ read more

Autistic 5YO In Kindergarten
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My son started kindergarten last week and he has a paraprofessional. It's been a rough start, my son is pulling things of shelves, makes noises and even kicked some people in the classroom. He's not violent with us, so this has to be related to being overwhelmed
Unfortunately his para is not trained to deal with autistic behaviors and the teacher doesn't seem to want to deal with the situation (I get it, she has many other kids to teach). Have any of your kids struggled in kindergarten? Did itā€¦ read more

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We just withdrew our 5 year old daughter from her school ! It was a complete nightmare!! Sheā€™s now home schooled and it was the best decision ever !!! Sheā€™s so much happier !!! And so am I if you haveā€¦ read more

My Son Is 13 And Struggles To Control His Impulses, Heā€™s Stolen From Shops And Steals Food Regularly From Our Cupboards And Is Unremorseful
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I wish I could find the answer. My son went out for a walk and forgot to take a drink and pinched water from the shop the weekend. He told his sister about who told me. I sat him down and asked himā€¦ read more

Behavior Issues At School
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My grandson is getting in trouble at school because heā€™s pushing or biting other kids. Weā€™ve had many conversations, but he always gets easily frustrated and reacts this way. How do we help him?

A MyAutismTeam Member

Im so sorry to hear this. You must feel stressed about it. I agree with whatā€™s been said. The behaviours are showing overwhelm or distress. This means staff need to be proactive. Sometimes thoseā€¦ read more