I'm returning to this site after a couple of years of inactivity. I have a son who is about to turn 11, and has high-functioning autism. We are in Anchorage, Alaska and would love to connect with others for playdates! I realize this isn't a question, per se - but seemed easier than searching for active profiles. Happy New Year, everyone. Let's make it great. ;)

Does anybody know if any good Omega 3 gummies that are dye and soy free? I would prefer organic but any good suggestions would help. We just found out today that the gummies we recently switched to have soy in them, which is a big no no for him. My son originally wasn't able able to drink all his juice which contained his cod liver oil. We originally liked that but of course oil and juice dont mix so maybe other suggestions at giving him this supplement? Any suggestions would be appreciated!

My 13 yo DD with Asperger's has learned the art of faking showers. She goes in the bathroom and .... ? She comes out with her hair wet but has not stepped into the shower let alone used soap. Short of taking her into the shower physically I do not see a solution. She smells awful and even the school has commented on it. The Psychiatrist has not had any input. Charts and schedules don't seem to help. I have been told "she's 13" " This is what they do at 13..."

Jacob is 10 and haircuts and hair washing is huge problem. I am trying to find anyway possible to help him feel more comfortable. I have tried to cut his hair at home and he gets so anxious he will start vomiting, I have tried a salon and he shuts down or panics. It's the same situation with washing his hair. He really doesn't like baths or showers and when I try to wash his hair, he cries, panics or shuts down. I have used baby shampoo so it won't hurt his eyes. I bought a handheld sprayer so… read more

My 7 year old daughter fought with me not to take a shower. She stunk so I had to get her to shower right then. She got out of the shower and went to her dad and told him that she’s overwhelmed because there’s a lot going on and coming up. So we’re taking a family rest day today. How can I know that she is overwhelmed and that’s why she doesn’t want to take a shower? So I just fight through it until she can tell me?

He is almost 16 and has resisted bathing for years now. To get him to bathe takes an act of Congress, with lots of verbal aggression and acting out. I want him to break this habit and get into a regular routine of bathing on his own at least once a week.

When did you start noticing body odor with your son? When did you start having him use deodorant?

His appearance, but his teeth are real battle. I bought an electric toothbrush. Worked for a while. If anyone has any suggestions, I'm here 😄

My son loves water play. And now showers have become a real problem. He does not want to get out, and any and all prompts and techniques are met with increased frustration and immediate meltdowns. Sometimes he will turn the water to the hottest setting as his upset increases. Anyone relate and have tips?