Thank you for your help and taking the time to respond to my cry for help. If only it was that easy, it should be but his biological absentee father refuses to be reasonable when it comes to our son. He acts as if he is not Autistic an hasn't been for 5 years now. He thinks now that he's older everything is fine, he expects a "normal" kid. He wants to just tear him away from all that he's known, rather then take the time to know him, learn what does and doesn't work and go at our little guys pace. Very frustrating as he's a boy with feelings and not a thing to be shown off. ASD Specialty Lawyers need to exist :)

Sidenote: The biological father and I have never been married, and he has not been invested in our son for 7 years. A standard parenting plan does not apply to a special needs child with Autism.