There is a school of thought that Special needs children are given to very special courageous, parents. The parents are so clearly defined in this life time, by how they respond to this experience and challenge of having a child with ASD.

You did not cause it ! and if your child could tell you "Thank you" for giving me life, or "I love you." they would. You may wait years before you hear it, but when you do it is like climbing MT. Everest. Having a Child with ASD brings out the best in our human spirits. We attempt to heal our children, to socialize them, We go above and beyond to Teach,care and love, We exhibit tolerance and humor, that will grow leaps and bounds. Remember to, contemplate daily what kind of person you want to offer back to God, in gratitude for your life and even for your child. Try your best ! Never give up! when you feel like giving up Reach out for a life ring. there are thousands waiting to help.

parenting a child with ASD is a calling, Make sure your, attitudes and intentions shape your actions every day. Your child sees you, even with a disability Knows you Love them. They have purpose and dignity like any one else. Your child may be the next genius, you don't know ! but, in the mean time as you discover your child's gifts and talents, Challenge the world to show unconditional Love and support the same support and acceptance you show to your child.. YOu the parent must model that. this journey is not for wimps. Blaming your self has no part in parenting it will take away your precious time, Guilt beats down the spirit and will not allow you to look for ways to help your child, that will keep you polarized stuck in the WHAT IF"S Don't spend to much time dwelling, it too will steal your time and energy, and even hurt your own body with that kind of stress.. You do however have permission to grieve the reality that you do have a special needs child and you do have to grasp what they can and can not do. Then look for the best in this situation, Pray daily, For Care givers and good friendships. Build support around you that way you are always in good care. Be thankful even on the hard days, You do not know what the future holds for your child, You do know how you can react to this moment with your child . Have Peace in knowing your not alone. Your never alone. We are here too going through the same cross, We can lift that tougher it is what a Christian family is supposed to do. Peace Prayers Comfort, Courage.