Hello Rendel. I am so sorry to hear you are having such a hard time. Especially your 16 year old. Schools sometimes are lazy. Not all of them but i found if I don't follow up A LOT with emails, so there is a paper trail, then noone does anything. Does your daughter attend a public school? Here is Florida by law they have to set up an IEP or individual education plan for any child with any time of "disability" meaning anything that makes learing hard. ADD, ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, etc.