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Parents, Has It Ever Crossed Your Mind That You And/or Your Spouse Could Also Have ASD?
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I ask because I often recognize behaviors in my mother—one-tone voice, being distant, can't always Identify sarcasm, fixation with certain topics (for her it's religion), and subsequently interpretation of information as literal
Once in a while, she tells me things that are only half true or not at all. On Vaccines, fertility, or politics. (we don't need to open that can of worms)
I looked at childhood photos of her and she seems to stand out. As for her and her four siblings, she's often not… read more

posted January 10
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A MyAutismTeam Member

The thought has always crossed my mind, in retrospect. Academically I was a good student, but struggled in math and sciences. Socially, I was the shy one in my friend group. I always have that one friend who brought me out of my shell.

When I reconnected with classmates on Facebook around 2008-2012, I found out a handful of us have a child on the spectrum. We all grew up in the same neighborhood or within a mile radius.

posted January 10
A MyAutismTeam Member

I'm with you on this.

posted January 16
A MyAutismTeam Member

Yes. In researching their diagnoses, I now self-diagnose as ASD. My life suddenly made sense with all the difficulties I didn't understand before. I can see it now in others too. There are stereotypes we've seen and we think "oh to be Autistic you have to behave like xyz", but I have discovered it is a spectrum and many things are impacted. It, of course, doesn't mean someone is not smart, capable, or successful. It is neurodiversity. It can be a gift in the way that brilliance can come from a different way of processing.

posted January 12
A MyAutismTeam Member

It's very possible! Autism runs in families. I seem to be the "odd one out" in my family, however, autistic parents often have autistic kids :)

posted January 10

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