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Port Wentworth, GA

My son is a very friendly child, he loves everyone and does not know a stranger..he will say hi to people at the grocery store telling them his name and offering a hand shake. Just the other day we were at the McDonalds playground and he ran around giving everyone in there hugs bye when we were leaving even though I was calling him over to stop because he was invading personal space. That got me thinking, what would he do if a stranger offered him a ride or something. Now he usually doesn't go… read more

September 24, 2012
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Members shared deeply relatable concerns about teaching children with high-functioning autism to recognize stranger danger, noting that many... Read more

Members shared deeply relatable concerns about teaching children with high-functioning autism to recognize stranger danger, noting that many of their kids are naturally trusting, friendly, and struggle to understand abstract concepts like danger from unfamiliar people. Several members recommended practical strategies that have worked for them, including establishing a secret password system that only trusted adults know, practicing role-play scenarios where the child learns to say 'Back off, I'm not allowed to talk to strangers' in a loud voice with defensive hand gestures, and enrolling children in self-defense classes like Tae Kwon Do that incorporate stranger danger training in age-appropriate ways. A recurring theme was the importance of repetition, patience, and creative teaching methods like visual rule lists or social stories, while also acknowledging the challenge of balancing a child's wonderful social nature with necessary safety boundaries.

A MyAutismTeam Member

This concept isn't just for "stranger danger". Its not always the stranger that is looking to harm our children. No matter how much we try, there are a lot of variety of people in the world and we come in contact with them all the time not always knowing it.

September 25, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

Have you tried a password before? that's where only if somebody gives the secret word/code can he go with them. I used this with my older daughters when I was working.

September 24, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son used to be that way. I had to explain to him that there were bad people in the world and not everyone told the truth. I kept drumming it into him and now he understands.

September 25, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

hi my daughter is 16 year old and she loves the computer she doesnt have no friends so she adds random ppl and asks them to come over and hang out i tell her thats very scary to talk to strangers so she dont go on much anymore

September 19, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

My 6 year old is the same way. He has even invited people to our house! I haven't found the right words or said them enough for him to understand but I hope he will get it soon. He is starting school now and I am a bundle of nerves!

August 14, 2013

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