"Look me in the eyes: My life with Asperger's" Its an amazing read. Looks at Asperger's or whatever they want to call it in a completely, non-textbook way. I highly suggest reading it.

Thanks. My son was diagnosed before the new DSM V. I am also aware of the elimination of Asberger's which I feel is a dis-service. However, before all that we were dropped from any services when he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, only because when he was a baby we got life insurance on him. Not sure what that has to do with anything, but that was what we were told. Everything since has had to be out of pocket. As for getting any type of state insurance or aid, we were told my husband who is the only one working in the family, makes $20 to much a month. Like that $20 will cover medicines, therapists, etc. Sorry, to get on my high horse a little there.

It would be great if I could get anything that may help.

Thank you so much.
Karla

I know exactly!! what you mean - my son diagnosed at 12. It's hard to pinpoint what is teenage angst and what is mental health issue. As you go along, really observe your child. What we think is not what they think - anything can be a transition with a different reaction for every kid (or "child" as my son would correct me - LOL). Look to your mental health agency for guidance. Asperger's also comes under the disabilities act so look into funting and tax breaks. Create the structure they so desperately need. I know it's a pain in the patootie for Moms and Dads but a little structure now will go a long way. Also, don't freak out - they need our understanding. They also don't pick up on social cues so absolutely everything needs to be explained - even why we shower. Most importantly - I think the 2 takeaways are observe and structure. I stepped back to really observe my son and my vision improved.

Wonderful, yeah that sounds like what I was looking for. Thanks so very much.

i'm 41 with Asperger's and have alot of diagnosis before aswell. Adults from the 70's education (as I am) are very different. You know what they say, every child is different. Its really true. Best thing I would say if talk to your son, all the time. Listen more. The books don't really help. I waisted alot of time on trying to teach myself things that didn't end up making 1/2 sense. Best bet is focus on your child, let me know how it goes. : )