yes if he is still wanting you and daddy to get back together (its good to know the two of you are on good terms now) then it may be very difficult for him to see anyone else as daddy or seeing mom with someone else. so dont push that too fast. i agree meet someplace nuetral. eating or playing together first should be easier on everyone.

I say invite your friend and let your son see you happy.. That will make the difference. Talk to him about how this friend makes you happy. And if at all possible have your ex meet this gentleman and give your son his stamp of approval!

Thank you all for your answers! They were so helpful! My last response was shortened by DS needing my attention. :) It was only today that I informed my DSs that I even had a boyfriend because I wasn't ready. Now we are and I can't thank you all enough for the help! :)

same thoughts - make it an inside thing. Like Chuck E Cheese. or an indoor playground of sorts. It was just tossing out suggestions of making it a neutral location. Good Luck!

How about doing something that he really enjoys to include boyfriend. Such as if he likes to play at the park, everyone has something to do, go for ice cream, keeping it informal eases it into the introduction. Boyfriend may have to drive separate in case of melt down .... good luck. keep the intro / visit short and then set up for another playdate :)