"An Early Start for Your Child with Autism" is GREAT! It is based on the Early Start Denver Model. Great stuff!

Behavioral interventions for young people with autism by Catherine Maurice and Gina Green.

Yep! That's the one:)

I loved this one:

Overcoming Autism
Finding the Answers, Strategies, and Hope That Can Transform a Child's Life
By (author) Lynn Kern Koegel

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DSQPPLC

Good advice especially for your man