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Should You Stop A Child From Sticking His Fingers In His Ears?

A MyAutismTeam Member asked a question 💭
Colfax, NC

Knowing that autistic children do not like loud noises; Andrew will stick his fingers in his ears, anticipating any loud noises; especially in public restrooms where the echos and the sound of the hand dryers bother him. My son claims this is causing Andrew's ear infections. Does this behavior stop, or does it continue? Should you stop him from doing this?

October 9, 2013
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Members overwhelmingly supported allowing children to cover their ears when overwhelmed by noise, emphasizing that sound sensitivity is common... Read more

Members overwhelmingly supported allowing children to cover their ears when overwhelmed by noise, emphasizing that sound sensitivity is common in autism and validating the child's need to self-regulate rather than forcing them to endure discomfort. Many families shared practical alternatives to fingers in ears, including noise-canceling headphones, earmuffs stuffed with cotton pads, earbuds with music or audiobooks, and specialized therapies like Auditory Integration Training and Therapeutic Listening that have helped some children become less reactive to loud sounds over time. A recurring theme was that while some children gradually outgrow extreme sensitivity, many continue to need accommodations into adulthood, and the priority should be supporting the child's comfort and emotional well-being rather than stopping a coping behavior that helps them navigate an overwhelming sensory world.

A MyAutismTeam Member

we got ear muffs for Julian and stuffed the ear piece with circle make up remover pads to muffle the noise more and it worked...$2.00 at target different colors...and they are small and fit in your purse or pocket...gr8 for going to the movies which was our motive.

October 10, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

You can purchase noise canceling or noise suppressing headphones for children. They seem to work for some children. There are also headphones that play music.

October 11, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member
My 23 year old puts his fingers in his ears, sometimes in anticipation of the noise. No ear problems. If he's happy I'm happy. Never even attempted to remove his fingers from his ears.

October 9, 2013 (edited)
A MyAutismTeam Member

Earplugs are a godsend with our without music for these ocassions

October 9, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

My 9-year-old grandson has ears like a hawk and ears like a whale--can hear and see anything so is sensitive to many things. Yes, must kids on spectrum are hearing sensitive. We bought him ear muffs that he voluntarily uses at bowling, cafeteria, school assemblies, etc. However sometimes if we r telling him something he doesn't want to hear, he'll put his hands to ears. Then we say quietly "hands down please." He keeps up on our sensitive toes!

October 21, 2013

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