I live in Wake but have a smaller child and while we have been very unsuccessful finding a private school for him as well as finding limited things educationally , ( we are actually thinking of relocation to accommodate him). I've heard great things about Jordan Lake. Seems like the schools and services get better as they get older. You could go to their face book page and message a parent for his or her review. Also could call the school and ask for references ... Other people I've spoken to have also raved about southern wake acadamy.. Good luck