get paperwork for the courts that specifically outlines what your child needs, his diagnose,and what is best for him. Theyseem to like non-involved person professionals opinnons

sorry your family has to go through this - we are here for you

I'm sorry. Having a special needs child is stressful in and of itself. Try to take care of yourself, be good to you. This doesn't answer your question, wish I could help you.
I'll keep positive thoughts for you and yours.