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A MyAutismTeam Member asked a question 💭
Washington, DC

Hi dear people
Does anyone has experience with their own child who has activities such are: bringing some things with him when leaves the house (toy or else what is new and interesting for him). When I ask to leave home the new toy when we go out side, he become very upset. Always insist to bring something with him. I can not figure it out it is good or bad. Should I pursue to leave toys home, or it is OK to bring with him? It seems to me that he is more confident in some kind... I don`t… read more

June 11, 2016
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Members overwhelmingly supported allowing children to bring comfort toys when leaving home, sharing that these items serve as powerful tools... Read more

Members overwhelmingly supported allowing children to bring comfort toys when leaving home, sharing that these items serve as powerful tools for managing anxiety, easing transitions to unfamiliar places, and helping children feel more secure in overwhelming environments. Several members described practical approaches, including keeping backup toys in the car to prevent meltdowns, establishing agreements like storing toys in bags at school to prevent loss, and recognizing that what might seem unnecessary to parents often fills a genuine emotional need for the child. A recurring theme was the importance of understanding that these behaviors are not problems to fix but coping strategies to support, with many members emphasizing that if it helps the child navigate the world more comfortably, there is no reason to discourage it.

A MyAutismTeam Member

I agree with everyone the toys calm them and make it easier to cope with things. I have never heard this is a bad thing from anyone, and it is very common. We have done it right from the beginning.

June 14, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

For our family, we allow things like that as long as our son is not hyper focused on the item. If having it helps him to acclimate to the environment, we've felt that is more important. Getting him used to being in a different social setting can be challenging....nothing wrong with giving him a little help!

June 13, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

The last six months my daughter who is 26 has been carrying lots of stuff animals around. So the speech therapist suggested a backpack from some toys and the other she puts in the trunk of our car.

June 12, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

Ditto top. My son takes a toy with him all of the time. It eases anxiety. If it works, why not?

June 11, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

My daughter has to take a toy outside everyday. We have an agreement that it goes into my bag when she gets to school so it doesnt get lost. We get total meltdown if we dont have enough time for her to pick toy before we leave house

July 8, 2016

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