Looks like an informative website but it stresses there are long wait lists in a lot of states.

Many people who qualify for waiver services are not even aware that they exist. Families struggle alone, to provide care- creating economic, physical, and emotional strain. States do not educate people about these programs, and it is often only through crisis that people realize help is available.

Forty-four (44) states and the District of Columbia have received waivers to provide home- and… read more