Do you notice that some days your child is "with you" mentally..and the other day they are off...it's like an every other day thing??
Good days, bad days. Better than good weeks, bad weeks. Lol. But yes, they ate hard to figure out. There's a pattern I'm sure to every one of these darlings. I know now it's my daughters cycle. Good luck. Just ride the ride. It can be a very rewarding one.
With both of my girls they cycle. Its hard sometimes because one is there and the other isn't. Sometimes they're both not. These days we just try to go with the flow.
Yes good days and bad days. That what it is.