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Smithville, TX

My son is in kindergarten. He has missed several days from school. Most because of illness some because of either all night insomnia and unable to function or severe meltdowns that left him an emotional wreck and unable to function. I have always sent notes but apparently they have a few they did not get so now they want to hold a meeting and possibly make him do what they call community service making him clean the cafeteria during part of his lunch which would be embarrassing for him and cause… read more

February 28, 2017
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A MyAutismTeam Member

I had problems because my son Has an immune deficiency. He can't fight off germs. I had homebound services due to his education planning. His teachers would assign his work, and a teacher came three times a week to work with him. Sometimes he still felt so sick that he couldn't do his work. My son was reading and retaining on a 12th grade level in second grade, but couldn't pick what he wanted to drink for dinner I came to terms that he would never be able to graduate high school due to concentration problems. His doctor wrote an in-depth letter, and they never hassled us again about attendance. He got a certificate of achievement instead of a diploma, and I'm fine with that. They included him in the graduation ceremony, but he was so excited, he stayed up all night the night before, and konked out asleep in his cap and gown at the school, so he got his picture made in his cap and gown, with his certificate, and went home and slept the rest of the day.Lol.
Beth Ann

March 1, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

I'm going through something similar with my daughter. Like the other parents have said be sure to get doctor's notes and keep written records of everything. I even document phone conversations. Have his IEP/504 ammended to included excessive absences if possible. Best of luck to you.

February 28, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank you very much. Going tomorrow to get dr note and taking all his neuropsychologist diagnosis and treatment with me to the meeting fri. He won't be punished or he will be homeschooled.

February 28, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

I may try this. Thank you very much!

February 28, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son misses school frequently for all kind of issues like sleep, anxiety, allergies and emotional issues. What we did was we asked his doctors to write letters for us that stated that he was going to miss time throuout the year and his diagnosis for all those conditions would be the cause of that.

Writing a note for every single time was becoming a problem, and the school saw how he acted when he had any of those issues and it was a problem, so they knew that he might as well have stayed home because nothing was going to get accomplished. They took the letters and have not given us an issue with them so that did the trick.

February 28, 2017

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