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Do Anyone Have A Reason What Could Cause My @8 Year Old To Have Meltdowns At School But Not St Home With Me?

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Wedt helena
May 10, 2018
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Members rallied around a parent whose 8-year-old was having meltdowns at school but not at home, with the overwhelming consensus being that... Read more

Members rallied around a parent whose 8-year-old was having meltdowns at school but not at home, with the overwhelming consensus being that sensory overload from classroom noise, lighting, and demands was likely the trigger, while home represented a safe zone where the child could finally decompress. Several members recommended practical next steps, including requesting a Functional Behavior Assessment through the IEP to identify specific triggers, asking for an occupational therapy evaluation to develop a sensory diet, reducing written work expectations for children with fine motor challenges, and directly observing the child at school to pinpoint what precedes each meltdown. A recurring theme was the importance of advocating fiercely for accommodations, listening to what the child can verbalize about their struggles, and recognizing that holding it together all day at school often means emotions explode once they reach the safety of home.

A MyAutismTeam Member

There are too many sensory triggers at school. To much or not enough sensory input. He could be over stimulated. May I recommend a book: The Out-of-Sync Child, Recognizing and coping with Sensory Integration Dysfunction. by Carol Stock Kranowitz, M.A. My copy is dog eared from use. I almost think they should call Autism sensory disfunction. "Just my opinion" No negative comments please.

June 1, 2018 (edited)
A MyAutismTeam Member

My guess is overstimulation and the constant demands at school. I work in a school and I want to have a meltdown sometimes. And I agree with Forensicmommy - maybe something is happening at school that he doesn’t know how to talk about or deal with. It’s worth keeping in mind. As my son got older (he’s now 14) he was able to tell me that sometimes another kid would do something to make him mad (as kids do to each other) but he was the one who got in “trouble” for his behavior. He told me that his “behaviors” were the only way he knew how to respond. I praise God that my son was able to verbalize all that. It really helped me understand and empathize with him.

May 26, 2018
A MyAutismTeam Member

Can someone be hurting him at school? A substitute teacher in my son's contained class terrorized my son and he did not speak for 2 weeks. He literally stopped talking. I figured it out and was glad when my son's teacher came back from maternity leave. What a mean woman the sub was. We are always telling my son to be quiet and stop repeating. However when he does not speak, that is when we know something is wrong so as long as he is in his world talking, he is ok. I hope you do find out as it could be any number of things.

May 15, 2018
A MyAutismTeam Member

Functional behavior assessment is the best answer for this. Try getting an evaluation for fba which let’s u know the trigger for the meltdown and typically the behavior before and after the meltdown. Is your kid in special education?? U can try for fba in ur kid IEP!

May 12, 2018
A MyAutismTeam Member

Triggers caused by sensory overwhelmeness

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