I use Frankincense from Young Living. Just place one or two drops on the crown of your child's head. I use it when my daughter is especially agitated, i will even put some on me if I am irritated and need to calm down! Also Hyland's calm or nerve is super helpful for my daughter and me! It is much less expensive than frankincense but it is sublingual and can cause sensory issues for our kids.

We use Young Living Essential Oils and are now going to try Nature's Ultra CBD Calm Roller. Currently my daughter uses Vyvanse and Fluoxetine but has such food and drinking aversion that she ends up getting dehydrated which leads to more UTIs and a past hx of failure to thrive. We are making strides though and I can only hope we make more with the addition of the CBD roller.