Check out Relationship Development Intervention. RDI. They list activities you can do together. If she prefers child lead approach- let her take a lead. As long as she is having fun, she will progress.

I'm learning toddlers love music and things that have color like maybe blocks or balls. Sometimes I just follow their lead , if I see them playing or interested in something..I may point and use simple words or phrases.

What do you mean by the phrase "help her"? What's your objective?

Thanks I will check them out!