I like to bond and connect with my sons teachers, they’re after all the person my son will relly on for most of his day and it improves communication between us making it easier for me to help my son. Well this year my sons teacher always asks for the case manager to be present whenever I need to talk to her. I have told her that I don’t need her to be present but she still insists. She makes everything very official and communication isn’t great, my son even tells me he doesn’t like her.
What would happen if you just showed up at school and asked to observe your child's class?
That seems like a red flag of something odd is going on I think. And the fact your son doesn't care for her as a teacher. The teacher must feel on edge about maybe something she is doing.
She always says it’s so that she can provide input.
Did she give you any reason ?