I have a 9 year old on the spectrum and a 5 year old that's not my 9 year old (son) and 5 year old (daughter) fight sometimes it gets physical my daughter is usually the one with marks on her and both say the other on hit the other then they both say the other is lying this has been happening more frequently lately and I have a friend that keeps telling me my daughter is out of control and that my son is telling the truth because people on the spectrum can't lie. I want to keep my kids safe and⦠read more
Violence is usually a part of the 'Fight or Flight' behavior, and something is triggering that behavior. Find out what it is and see if you can remove it.
Lying is more about 'Social Acceptance'.
If affordable I will buy a set of echo dots from Amazon that way you can watch them when they are not in your view and you can pick it up and place it anywhere you like. Even without them knowing. You can also watch both cameras through your phone once you set it up
Thank you, we had therapy today and the therapist thinks it's a jealousy issue
Thank you I'll look into that I know in the past my son has hurt my daughter π’ I have seen it and my daughter has had marks on her and my son says she's lying she hits and chokes him now but he has no marks most of the time so I'm at a loss some of the times neither of them have any marks and I just don't know anymore π’ π