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Spencerville, OH

My son keeps running away from home. The last time he stripped down naked first. I have a bad feeling I'll be getting charged with neglect or endangerment. Idk what to do anymore...

July 23, 2023
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Members rallied around a parent whose autistic son keeps eloping from home, sharing practical safety strategies including high-mounted locks... Read more

Members rallied around a parent whose autistic son keeps eloping from home, sharing practical safety strategies including high-mounted locks that require keys, door and window alarms, doorknob covers, and tracking bracelets available through police programs for individuals who wander. Several members emphasized the importance of addressing sensory issues related to clothing, installing cameras for monitoring, communicating elopement risks to all caregivers and school staff, and exploring specialized beds that provide secure sleeping areas for peace of mind at night. A recurring theme was proactive collaboration with police and children's services to access resources rather than face punishment, with members encouraging the parent to view agency involvement as an opportunity to speed up support, document safety efforts, and connect with programs like Project Lifesaver that can help protect their child.

A MyAutismTeam Member

I have a lock mounted high on our front door and the door to the garage. We don't on our deck door bc we have a fenced in backyard. We have combination bicycle locks on our two gates so he can't get out. Here is the link to the type of lock we have mounted high on our doors. You can only use it while home because it prevents people from opening the door from the other side.
https://www.amazon.com/Security-Childproof-Rein...(Phone number can only be seen by the question and answer creators)&sprefix=door+lo%2Caps%2C922&sr=8-3

July 25, 2023
A MyAutismTeam Member

Can he undo the locks? My son can occasionally but not always turn a deadbolt. However the doorknob covers they have he has yet to be able to undo. There are sticks, chains, alarm mats that go off when people step towards the door. This is difficult and honestly has cost me a great deal of sleep as you cannot supervise someone every second alone because at some point you will need the bathroom and sleep. My son won't really tolerate wearing anything but if yours will Angelsense may be a good invest. Not everywhere but some police stations programs where they collect info voluntarily given about autistic individuals they may interact with. I make it a point to tell anyone I see who is working with my child teacher, school nurse, IEP attendees, bus drivers, speech therapist to be alert that there may be elopement attempts.

July 23, 2023
A MyAutismTeam Member

You can also get alarms that sound when a door has been breeched.

July 23, 2023 (edited)
A MyAutismTeam Member

Get locks on the door that need a key to open.

July 23, 2023
A MyAutismTeam Member

Maybe in the mean time... try to show him pictures that explains what can happen if he runs out without mommy.
I pray little guy gets all the resources and support he needs.

July 24, 2023

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