Two. Great answers there! Obviously, there's so many intricacies in being on the spectrum! I hope this doesn't sound offensive but most importantly I would(if you haven't already) Pray for God to give you the direction you all need as a family to find the people and resources that will bring enlightenment and development For your family! the list is endless the Lord has directed our family to find the same!

If he's succeeding in a mainstream classroom, I'd look at possibly finding him additional resources versus putting him in a specialized classroom. I struggled with attention and focus when I was his age, too, and still do. I was finally diagnosed with ADHD at 25, and autism at 31. I never had any extra help in school since my diagnoses came so late; I had already graduated from college. I'm glad you all have answers early on and that he received his diagnoses at a young age - this will help him to get his needs met! Best wishes to you and kiddo! :)

I agree with Autie4Lyfe83 that early diagnosis means early support. Familiarize yourself with the resources available to you because, in my experience, other challenges will arise in adolescence. Is there any issue with anxiety as far as you know? Stomachaches, freeze ups, brain fog or withdrawal? Have you explored the value of martial arts training for persons on the autism spectrum?

It sounds like she has zero patience so I would get him out of her class right away to prevent her from making your child feel bad about himself. I would suggest researching your nearby elementary schools & contacting them to ask about what Autism classes they offer & then set up appointments to meet with the Special Ed. director. Schools vary so you will want to get as much info. as possible about the actual 1st grade teachers & meet with them to find out if they are a good fit for your child’s specific needs. You can also call & ask to tour any Autism schools in your area to determine which one is most appropriate for your son. Just keep in mind most private schools are very expensive as opposed to public schools being free.

My son attends regular school, but he has a IEP (Individualized Education Plan) & other support/resources available for him. I think if the school can't accommodate your son's needs then consider other options available to help him have a positive school experience with the right support. That's very important. My son unfortunately wasn't diagnosed until he was 16 years old. All the years of schooling before his diagnosis he was treated badly by the school system staff. A school for Autism isn't a bad thing.