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How do you fix bad behaviors? With your kiddos? I'm still struggling with all of this

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Michigan, MI

Bad behaviors

October 24, 2024
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Members connected over managing challenging behaviors in children with autism and developmental differences, acknowledging the exhaustion and... Read more

Members connected over managing challenging behaviors in children with autism and developmental differences, acknowledging the exhaustion and complexity involved while sharing practical strategies that have worked for their families. Several members emphasized identifying sensory triggers and needs, staying emotionally neutral to avoid reinforcing attention-seeking behaviors, using reward systems tied to desired activities like shopping or screen time, and incorporating physical activity like swinging and running to help regulate sensory-seeking children. A recurring theme was the importance of patience, trial and error, and understanding that behaviors often stem from unmet sensory needs or communication challenges rather than defiance, with many members finding success through environmental modifications, consistent routines, and lots of praise for positive behavior.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Yes. She has a swing at all three family houses. Loves it.

December 28, 2024
A MyAutismTeam Member

I think identifying triggers is important because sometimes you just have to work around things like crowds, noises, breakage, etc. It may not always be possible to eliminate a behavior but sometimes you can decrease through rewards. Short 2-3 minute time outs worked well with Liam when he was younger.

October 24, 2024 (edited)
A MyAutismTeam Member

I think a lot of physical activity helps behaviors in sensory seeking kids. Liam is always better behaved when he gets an opportunity to swing and run around

December 27, 2024
A MyAutismTeam Member

I think with our special children it’s really difficult but I am working on correcting negative behaviour with a firm chat , & if they just behave long enough to listen that’s massive in itself, punishment makes it worse & they don’t understand it, one day at a time with lots of love & support, and lots & lots of phrase & encouragement one the good behaviour. And remember chin up my friend. X

October 28, 2024

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