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Challenges with friends?

October 7, 2025
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Members shared the isolating experience of trying to form friendships with parents of neurotypical children, with many describing feeling... Read more

Members shared the isolating experience of trying to form friendships with parents of neurotypical children, with many describing feeling ignored, excluded from playdates, or treated differently once other parents learned about their child's autism diagnosis. Several members offered practical strategies for connection, including joining group activities like scouts, sports teams, or special interest classes where parents naturally gather and wait together, as well as seeking out inclusive programs and volunteering to increase visibility and comfort. A recurring theme was the painful reality of social isolation coupled with fierce encouragement to keep trying, teach others about autism through example, and remember that finding even one or two accepting friends who truly understand can make all the difference.

A MyAutismTeam Member

I don't know about y'all, but my mom and I want to eventually move to the Columbia, SC area! We've fallen in love with the Carolinas, hence our home away from home 😊

October 8, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

Yes and no, most of my friends kids (the 3 or 4 I have) have some kind of challenge even if it may not be autism. I find it easier to relate to parents with autistic kids myself though because it can be a different parenting experience.

October 7, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

Omg if my friends lived in co ide be to happy n I would annoy you guys than u wouldn't want be my friend :(

October 10, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

Yes, I have but I think that is because all the parents you meet are at all the services and resources and special education meetings, meetings the parents who have typical, instead of atypical children, do not attend.  A group activity is best. Try to involve your child in activities that other parents will take their children to like some type of class or sport, or have your child join the boy scouts/girl scouts or something similar. Something where parents are sitting down waiting for their children and you have a chance to talk and get to know each other. Special Olympics is great and do involve your child if you would like, my son was involved for many years and had a great time, but also involve your child in a sport where you will have a chance to meet other parents and your child will have a chance to meet other children outside of the special ed/special olympic world. It's not easy but it can be done, so don't give up. Volunteering to help out at one of these activities is another great way to meet and get to know the parents as well.

October 8, 2025
A MyAutismTeam Member

Catherine6-sounds ideal !

October 8, 2025

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