Years ago my son roommate passaway and we went to a greif group

Harriet

Thank you ❤️

Sorry for your loss. Counseling for your son may be helpful. My son's team mentioned potential anxiety issues. He even casually talked about being afraid to the school psychologist while coloring pictures. Surprised me bc he never mentions that. Prayers for all of you during this time.

Sorry to hear about your oldest

How to support an autistic person who is grieving
Be clear and direct: Explain death in simple, literal terms, avoiding euphemisms like "passed away" or "gone to sleep".
Provide a safe space: Allow for different ways of grieving. Respect that the person may need quiet, private space, and that their needs may be different from others.
Help with emotional expression: Use tools like visual aids, a "feelings thermometer," or an "emotion wheel" to help the person identify and communicate their emotions. "Comic strip conversations" can also be helpful for discussion.
Anticipate the disruption: Acknowledge that grief is a major disruption to routine and structure. Help the person prepare for changes by providing clear explanations and information.
Understand delayed reactions: Be aware that behaviors might appear much later and may be connected to the grief, even if the link isn't obvious.
Offer practical help: Assist with navigating social situations like funerals by discussing the process beforehand and identifying quiet spaces where the person can go if needed.
Encourage open communication: Find out how the individual copes and what helps them process their feelings, and work with them to create supportive coping strategies.
Seek professional help: Consider seeking support from therapists who are knowledgeable about both grief and autism.

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/t...

https://www.autismspeaks.org/grief-and-bereavem...

Bereavement - a guide for professionals

https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/mental-health/bereavement/professionals