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Pensacola, FL

Does anyone elses kid hate coloring and writing I have been racking my brain since homeschooling my son about this he's been evaluated for ot and dont need it but he refuses to write or color and barely does the activity books if it's a maze hell do it but cross words or anything nope I just don't want him falling behind my mom's told me not to worry about it to much the writing is what it is she said but idk sorry for the long rant lol I'm just curious if I'm overthinking it or if I do need to… read more

January 10
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Members offered compassionate support and practical ideas to a parent whose autistic son resists writing and coloring, with several suggesting... Read more

Members offered compassionate support and practical ideas to a parent whose autistic son resists writing and coloring, with several suggesting a possible evaluation for dysgraphia (a learning disability affecting writing) by a neuropsychologist if he continues to avoid writing entirely. Many members shared strategies that worked for their own children, including simplifying coloring pages to reduce overwhelm, trying different art mediums like painting or color-by-number activities, and connecting writing practice to his specific interests like Pokémon or favorite characters. A recurring theme was meeting children where they are, making tasks feel less like work and more like play, and recognizing that some kids simply learn differently and may not thrive with traditional pencil-and-paper activities.

A MyAutismTeam Member

For the coloring we tried outlining the picture with a few different colors. Maybe 2 or 3. Also the coloring page was very basic. Not a lot to color. Not too busy. Only put on table the 2 or 3 colors and coloring page. My daughter gets too overwhelmed if the picture is too detailed or involved or if there are too many colors to choose from. We had to pick the colors and outline most of it then let her choose just one small piece to pick the color. This has worked very well. She was just overwhelmed but actually enjoys coloring. We just had to approach it differently. Slowly she has started coloring on her own.

January 11
A MyAutismTeam Member

Ok thank you I'll see what I can find

January 10
A MyAutismTeam Member

Use everyday life experiences to teach. Explore how it learns. Writing and activities are not its thing- it learns in a different way.

January 16
A MyAutismTeam Member

Also i forgot the name and just said follow along 😆 I meant those types of color pages that give you a set list of colors and all the numbers 5 are blue all the 1 are white etc

January 14
A MyAutismTeam Member

Have you tried different art mediums to see if he might have a preference? Our son preference is painting he likes the way he can mix colors, he also does color but we put alot of work in doing different types of creative projects with him and still do, if we have activity books he prefers to do mazes, Connect the pictures and the work in the book and will ignore coloring, when he does color he likes to keep it practical (trees are not purple the sky is not rainbow, a bear is brown or black, we also noticed he enjoys connect the dots and or color photos that have patterns so a follow along have you tired those before ? Our son also avoids writing if he can, has struggled to properly hold a pencil properly and if he has a peak interest then will write so we go after those, like if theres a monster, character or specific interest your son has print off photos of that to color, for practicing writing, make a game of it like "name all the Pokémon let's try to write the names out as well! Just an idea (those things have helped us with avoiding writing /art

January 14

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