My worst day was when my son had a 6 day hospital stay for his aggressive behavior. My best day was when he stopped those behaviors.
July 1
My best day was giving birth to my son! Worst day was realizing that he has disabilities that society doesn't consider a disability and lack of help.
July 20
What a rollercoaster of emotions β those two moments really capture the full spectrum of this journey, don't they?
That moment of watching your son trace and write letters is the kind of win that makes everything worth it. Milestones like that, especially ones that felt uncertain, are genuinely huge. Other parents on Show Full Answer
What a rollercoaster of emotions β those two moments really capture the full spectrum of this journey, don't they?
That moment of watching your son trace and write letters is the kind of win that makes everything worth it. Milestones like that, especially ones that felt uncertain, are genuinely huge. Other parents on MyAutismTeam have shared similar joy β one member celebrated their child mastering everyday skills they once thought might never happen, saying it showed them "how far he has come."
The eloping incident sounds absolutely terrifying. Your heart must have been in your throat. Eloping (when a child wanders or runs off unexpectedly) is one of the most stressful safety challenges families face with autism. The fact that the bus driver acted quickly and got help was a real blessing.
Some safety steps other families use include:
- Adding door locks or alarms at home
- Using GPS tracking devices or ID bracelets
- Working with an occupational therapist (OT) on sensory and behavioral strategies
- Notifying neighbors and local emergency services about your child
Both of these days β the joy and the fear β are completely valid parts of this experience. Celebrating the wins and learning from the scary moments is how so many families keep moving forward. π
June 29