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July 19
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Reassure him that this is a natural thing but that there is a time and place for it. Explain that when he would like to explore there he needs to be in a place that is his and a personal space not a public or family place.

We have the same issue with our son, sometime he remembers and takes private time in his room, other times he needs reminding.

July 28
A MyAutismTeam Member

When my son started with touching and exploring, I didn’t make him feel like it was wrong, cuz it is natural for them any kids really, but I explained that it’s to be done in private, his room or the bathroom, I made him feel comfortable about it and that it’s ok to be curious

July 22
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Redirect him to private room and perfectly normal and just make sure has shower

July 19
MyAutismTeam

This is a really common concern for parents of children with autism, and it's great that you're looking for ways to help your son navigate this. Children with autism often explore their bodies as part of sensory seeking behavior, which is very natural — but it's also important to teach appropriate boundaries.

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This is a really common concern for parents of children with autism, and it's great that you're looking for ways to help your son navigate this. Children with autism often explore their bodies as part of sensory seeking behavior, which is very natural — but it's also important to teach appropriate boundaries.

Here are some strategies that may help:

- Teach body safety rules in simple, direct language. For example: "Private parts are private. We only touch them in the bathroom or bedroom."
- Use social stories — short, visual guides that explain expected behavior in a clear and relatable way. An occupational therapist (OT) can help create one tailored to your son.
- Redirect the behavior calmly and without shaming. Offer an alternative sensory activity to meet his sensory needs.
- Be consistent — repeat the same simple message every time the behavior occurs.
- Work with an OT who can assess whether this is sensory-driven and suggest a "sensory diet" to address underlying sensory needs.

It's worth speaking with your son's doctor or OT to rule out any discomfort or irritation that might be causing him to touch that area. Patience and consistency are key — change takes time but it does happen!

July 19
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son did something similar and just really had to be redirected to his room enough that he learned that is the most appropriate space for that. He still tests boundaries some times but very little.

July 28

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