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Puyallup, WA

My son is 3 years old and is a few months away from his official diagnosis appointment with his developmental pediatrician but we've been told he is high functioning and is on the spectrum.

Last week he was using a "big boy" cup to drink and he'd take a sip and make a sound like a (that hits the spot) sound and then went into this "routine" of saying "So, let's go find my girl friend." or something similar and he would not stop.... every single time he drinks from a big boy cup now he… read more

January 17, 2012
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Members validated that repetitive speech patterns are very common in children on the autism spectrum, identifying the behaviors as echolalia... Read more

Members validated that repetitive speech patterns are very common in children on the autism spectrum, identifying the behaviors as echolalia (repeating previously heard phrases for self-soothing or stimming) or scripting (using memorized phrases to communicate specific needs or desires). Several members shared that their own children repeat lines from movies, TV shows, or everyday conversations for days or weeks at a time, with sources ranging from Ice Age to SpongeBob, and that while the behavior evolves as children grow, it often persists in different forms throughout their lives. A recurring theme was the importance of distinguishing between repetition that serves a communicative purpose versus pure self-stimulation, with practical strategies including gently redirecting attention, expanding on the phrase to encourage language development, responding once then ignoring to break the cycle, and watching for cues like eye contact or tone that signal the child is trying to express something meaningful.

A MyAutismTeam Member

It's very normal for ASD kids. Even typical developing kids go through a stage of repeating but ASD get kinda stuck on this stage. There's several reasons why they do it. It could be verbal self-stim, or it could be that they're replaying something in their heads. Your guy is little so you haven't yet seen that they go through different periods of "stuckness" (my new word). Don't worry, they normally move on to some new stuck thing.

Anyhow, our autism consultant says that you should take that and try to expand or modify to encourage more language. So you could make an appropriate comment about your cup. And then model him to say something appropriate.

However if your son is not speech delayed that may not be an issue.

Remember sometimes bringing to much attention to an issue will actually cause it to last longer. So keep that it mind.

January 18, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son does that as well. He repeats the same question 10 times even if we've answered him every time. He will pick out phrases and words and repeat them ad nausa especially when we engage him in converstation.

January 19, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

My son who is 3 does this ALL the time. If he learns a new name or whatever word he learns he will say it over and over and over and over ( ha ha ) it can be annoying but I just embrace the fact the he says a new word:)

January 18, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

My 4yr old does it ALL the time. He will repeat a certain word or phrase. It may be something he heard on tv, a game, during school or therapy session or something I've said. It may be something recent or even months prior. He also likes to take words and morph them so they sound silly. The average person won't understand the word, but I will since I know its origin. "Aw-dunka-fat" was once "Eww..stinky feet". I believe the correct term is 'vocal stereotypy'. Here's a short article: http://autism.healingthresholds.com/research/as...

My son's ABA skill trainer has been helpful in teaching me how to redirect his attention when he starts on the 'broken record' cycle. He also does this with random sounds as well. Did it with one sound for 3hrs one night prior to therapy starting. Nearly drove me bonkers >_<

January 17, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member - I think your explanation of scripting vs echolia was really useful. The fact is that repeating phrases sometimes do have communicative intent where our children are trying to tell us something. So don't just automatically assume the repeated phrases have no meaning. For my son, I can tell there's communicative intent when he looks at me more, if his tone is more intense, or if he moves closer to me. For our kids with limited language, we need to be paying attention to all their signals.

April 9, 2013 (edited)

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