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Kernersville, NC

A new school year has started and I thought I finally could get my 8th grader some help now that he was "officially" diagnosed with Aspergers. I met with a special education case manager and just had a teacher conference with her and a guidance counselor. They told me getting an IEP is going to be difficult because of my son's excellent grades and him not being a behavior problem student. They said that his Aspergers doesn't stand out like others. This is frustrating to me because he clearly… read more

September 28, 2012
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Members rallied around a parent struggling to secure an IEP for their son with Aspergers despite excellent grades, with many sharing that... Read more

Members rallied around a parent struggling to secure an IEP for their son with Aspergers despite excellent grades, with many sharing that schools often resist providing services when students perform well academically but still need organizational and executive functioning support. Several members offered strategic advice, including requesting testing to document learning disabilities like Non-Verbal Learning Disorder, pursuing a 504 plan as an alternative pathway when IEP eligibility is denied, hiring an educational advocate to navigate the special education system, and persistently advocating until the school agrees to help. A recurring theme was the exhausting but necessary role of being a fierce advocate for your child, with members encouraging the parent to document everything, know their legal rights under IDEA and Section 504, and never give up fighting for the accommodations their son deserves.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Hi! They evaluated for the IEP and declined us. Then I tried an IEP based on OHI and they declined us. But they did grant him a 504. Fortunately, he is now staring his freshman year at a new school and I'm hopeful that things will be a lot better!!!

August 30, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

I think your son is elegible for a 504 Ask @ his school if they do them. From what I understand its for thoes kids that dont meet the requirements to have an IEP. And it sounds to me like your guy falls right in to this catigory. Best of luck and dont give up eventally they will get sick of you and agree to whatever you are asking for. I should know because thats me, When it comes to my son and his education look out because Im one tough cookie who you dont want to mess with!! God Bless my friend

August 29, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank you, I plan to do my research!! I have been fighting and advocating since he was 2 years old and not about to stop now!! It just gets exhausting after a while but we mamma bears have to keep pluggin' along!!

September 28, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

Unfortunately the school district is right. I read the eligibility requirements for special education and its likely you child does not meet them. I'm giving you the link to Alaska's sped handbook which summarizes the federal IDEA laws (easier than reading the law). http://www.eed.state.ak.us/tls/sped/handbook.html It's under section 8.

That being said..... schools do have obligations to help regular ed students too. I would suggest that you request a class or tutoring on the organization skill-deficent. The counselor should be able to help if they are good at their job.

September 28, 2012
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thanks!! I did get him a 504 this past spring finally!!! It was interesting that the previous two years, I couldn't get one and then all of a sudden, they give him one. I think you're right -- they got tired of me :)

August 30, 2013

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