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Kingston, TN

I recently had to go to court to get custody of my grandson and in doing so he had to change schools.I informed them he had a 504 plan and they called me later telling me he had not had a 504 plan in months because she missed a meeting. Should he be punished for her being lazy. I am at a loss and he is struggling.

April 4, 2013
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Members rallied around a grandparent navigating the confusing process of reinstating a 504 plan for their grandson after a school transfer,... Read more

Members rallied around a grandparent navigating the confusing process of reinstating a 504 plan for their grandson after a school transfer, with the overwhelming consensus being that the child should not be punished for administrative lapses and that the new school is legally obligated to help. Several members shared specific action steps, including requesting an evaluation or IEP meeting in writing, contacting the Special Education department or school counselor directly, asking for copies of the old 504 plan to be updated and implemented immediately, and considering parent advocacy groups if the school resists. A recurring theme was the importance of being persistent and unafraid to advocate firmly for the child's rights, with members emphasizing that schools are required to provide assessments within 30 days and that putting all requests in writing with time stamps creates accountability.

A MyAutismTeam Member

I am total agreement with @Robinhessman don't let the school tell you no. They are obligated to assess the child if the gaurdian requests it and if he has a formal diagnosis he should have had a plan on file anyway. If you have any more trouble try looking in your area to see if their is an advocacy group. Sometimes parent advocates will go with you and they are often familer with the law. Remember you have the right to invite anyone to the IEP meetings you want too!

April 5, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Exactly! Last year I requested a meeting with my son's school and after not hearing anything regarding the meeting I emailed the teacher again. I was then told that they wouldn't be able to meet with me until the beginning of the following year. I called the school office and left a message stating that I wanted the meeting to take place before the end of the year or I would start looking at other districts in the area for my son to attend that would be of more help to him and his learning capabilities. I got a call from the school the very next morning and got my meeting to set up his 504 plan. I know that may sound harsh but, we are the only ones who can stand up for our children. Don't be afraid to be straight forward to get what your child needs.

April 5, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

The current school will get a copy of his old 504 and need to adapt it to their policies.

April 5, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

You can tell the school that you want to update his 504 plan. This is usually done annually. You should contact the school counselor or the Special Education department and explain your circumstances. Schools have enforced "expired" IEP's and/or 504's, in many school systems until a new one can be amended. Don't let them tell you there is nothing they can do. It is their duty to do this for you. Don't give up! They should have a copy of the old one...and all they need to do is update it and have you sign, as the legal guardian. The faster you do it, the earlier it will go into effect. Good luck.

April 5, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thanks for all the help...not gonna sit ln this one..I am gonna act and fight for his rights.....setting up a meeting for monday

April 5, 2013

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