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Corning, NY

Can anyone give me some pointers on the best way to cut Hayden's toenails? He absolutely refuses to have his toes touched. Fingers are ok, just not toes. :/

April 17, 2013
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Members responded to a question about cutting a child's toenails when the child refuses to have their toes touched, with the most popular... Read more

Members responded to a question about cutting a child's toenails when the child refuses to have their toes touched, with the most popular solution being to trim nails while the child is sleeping. Several members shared additional strategies including gradually desensitizing the child by gently touching their toes daily with positive reinforcement, using bribes like lollipops or screen time, or filing nails instead of clipping them after soaking in warm water if the child allows. A recurring theme was the relief parents felt in discovering this is a common challenge, with one parent sharing their child eventually overcame the fear and now tolerates nail cutting.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Sleeping!!! I even paint her nails as she sleeps.... She Luvs it

April 18, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Cut them while here is sleeping!

April 18, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

I would do two different things. First start, just touching his toes a few times every day. Over time, increase the time that you touch them. Give him a reinforcer after he allows you to touch them. Make this phone. You are building trust and getting him used to the feel of being touched so tread softly.

Second, until he gets used to having his toes touched, I would cut his toenails while he is sleeping.

April 17, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

File them. It works for my boy. You can soak the nails in warm water first, if your child allows it.

June 21, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

Since my post, my son has conquered a lot of his fears. I can now cut his tie nails; however, he's not exactly crazy about it.

February 16, 2016

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