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He is like Jeckle and Hide. With his parents and me he's obedient and nice. Only once in a while he may melt down if you bring change to quickly. He don't like babies or other children around him???? His learning center says he will not be able to go to kindergarten. His parents and I are heartbroken.

May 1, 2013
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Members rallied around a grandmother heartbroken after her grandson's learning center said he wouldn't be ready for kindergarten due to... Read more

Members rallied around a grandmother heartbroken after her grandson's learning center said he wouldn't be ready for kindergarten due to aggressive behavior toward other children, with many offering hope that with the right support and understanding, children with behavioral challenges can thrive. Several members shared practical strategies drawn from personal experience, including using speech therapy to help children express their feelings before reacting physically, identifying sensory triggers like noise or personal space violations, establishing consistent boundaries and consequences while avoiding enablement, and using calming tools like glitter bottles during meltdowns. A recurring theme was the importance of accurate diagnosis, as the conversation evolved from initial concerns about autism to a clearer picture of ADHD and ODD, with members emphasizing that getting the right evaluation, securing a one-on-one aide, and staying prayerfully involved throughout the process can make all the difference in helping a child succeed.

A MyAutismTeam Member

We went to a meeting for Logan yesterday. They are leaning more toward ADHD and ODD. They do not feel he is Autistic. He is a very auditory and sensory child. He does not like a lot of noise or people in his space. He reacts very aggressively. They will start him with a 1on1 aide for the summer and next year. His behaviors keep him from learning so this should help him a lot.

May 15, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Your welcome and thank you ;o)

May 29, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank-you. God bless you too.

May 29, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

Now to be honest, those new diagnosis sound more accurate as I have a friend with a child with ADD and he behaves almost identical to what your describing in your grandson. Continue to pray and remain involved throughout the entire process and he will be fine!

It's great that they took another look at his condition, because a mis-diagnosis can definitely be frustrating for all parties involved especially the child!

God bless ;o)

May 28, 2013
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member okay that's great to hear, because it shows that he can be redirected. However, his mother may consider trying some of your methods especially with the glitter or things that keep him calm, as opposed to "holding him down" she must get to a point where he response to his behavior is unacceptable.

I'm glad to hear that you have a consistent event to attend for assistance. Here in Washington, DC we have resources but even those are limited. Have a blessed day and I'm praying that everything works out.

May 8, 2013 (edited)

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