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Colne, UK

Austin when asked not to do something would bang his head in the floor, walls anything that hurt. If i tried to stop him he would find somewhere else to do it. He stopped doing this for a good six months but has started doing it again. He doesnt communicate well but understands a lot. Could this be a tantrum ? Or frustration from non communication ? Or both ?

January 27, 2016
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Members deeply empathized with a parent whose child with autism had resumed self-injurious head-banging behaviors, recognizing it as likely... Read more

Members deeply empathized with a parent whose child with autism had resumed self-injurious head-banging behaviors, recognizing it as likely stemming from communication frustration and the inability to express needs or handle transitions. Several members shared practical strategies that worked for their own children, including teaching simple words or signs to replace the behavior, using visual supports like picture cards or timers to prepare for changes, implementing hand-over-hand routines, trying sensory toys and calming music during episodes, and working closely with occupational therapists to address underlying sensory or regulatory needs. A recurring theme was the importance of staying calm and patient during meltdowns, considering whether anxiety medication might help if the behaviors escalate, and using visual reward systems like sticker charts to reinforce positive communication attempts.

A MyAutismTeam Member

yes its frustration and anger my son was the same try holding him and talking calmly to him music and sensory toys distraction helps

February 18, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

Divert him but most importantly words help...though my son still can't communicate well and unfortunately does not understand things much too but tries to copy lots of words and his head banging habit has gone since he has words..otherwise he was exactly the same...used to bang head anywhere..another thing his OT told was to give him finish time...like finish in 5 mins or so as to make him prepared for the change...

January 27, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

u could also try a sticker chart as autistic children are visual if he gets his stickers he gets praise and a reward for no smacking etc

February 18, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

Speak with occupational therapy.

February 4, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

Anniah had to be placed on a very low dose of Tenex when she was three. It was able to calm her down without turning her into a zombie. It stopped the violence in it's tracks. You might want to ask his doctors about that. For the first week, she was sleepy until she adjusted to it. But it only took a week.

January 29, 2016

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