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I need recommendations for the Naples/Fort Myers Florida area. We are moving there this summer, and I want to find the right school for my 12 year old son. He's currently in a small class of fourteen 5th and 6th graders. Middle school will be a huge change for him. He is high functioning and also has ADHD. DeLasalle looks wonderful, but it's quite expensive. I'm looking into the scholarships, but it seems that we will need to be Florida residents for a year before qualifying. Any and all… read more

February 25, 2016
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Members shared their experiences navigating middle school options for high-functioning autistic children in the Naples and Fort Myers area,... Read more

Members shared their experiences navigating middle school options for high-functioning autistic children in the Naples and Fort Myers area, with the strongest recommendation being Pine Ridge Middle School in Collier County, which parents praised for better ESE support and inclusive practices compared to Lee County schools. Several members described frustrating battles with Lee County schools over IEP compliance, last-minute schedule changes, inadequate supports in mainstream classrooms, and bullying incidents, with one parent pulling their child from school after the system failed to provide promised services despite a clear IEP. A recurring theme was the challenge of finding middle schools that offer meaningful inclusion with actual supports rather than full mainstreaming without accommodations, alongside warnings that Florida's McKay Scholarship and programs like DeLaSalle Academy may require residency or significant out-of-pocket costs.

A MyAutismTeam Member

The state does not offer much in regards to services and when we were there the teachers were not the best in regards to dealing with autism in the public schools. We took the children to Eden in the summer but it was mostly out of pocket. There is the McKay scholarship but it will not pay for everything.

The public schools are big on integration so if your child needs more help it is not going to be easy. We left Florida for these reasons.

February 29, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

Please look into DeLaSalle Academy!! They are wonderful! Fort Myers. It's expensive but there are scholarships that cover most of it!!

February 26, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

Hello! I am considering a move back down to the FM/Naples area. Like you, Aubrey and Bek, I have a high functioning kiddo. He is currently mainstreamed, but isn't given proper (any) supports in his gen ed class. He's basically sent there with nothing. He's a fifth grader and our options for middle school are all or nothing. As in, he can either receive supports in a self-contained class with kids experiencing severe disabilities and behaviors or gen ed/resource that only provides academic support. He also has dyslexia, dysgraphia and math challenges. I grew up in Cape Coral, where my family has just moved back to. I loathe everything about the place, personally. But, my mom is there and needs more help. I would consider Fort Myers or Naples. The winner being whichever place could provide the best supportive and inclusive environment for my boy. I would love to hear how your experiences have been thus far and which schools you finally settled on. Thanks!

February 26, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

Sounds great! Dylan will need some friends.

June 7, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

He is 12 and just wrapping up 6th grade. It was a big move, but my mom had space for us when needed it, so we packed up the apartment and moved down here. i still can't believe we have been here for 10 years. Time flies! Let me know when you are settled in, so we can get our boys together.

June 6, 2016

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