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Bakersfield, CA

My daughter is due for her check up and cleaning. I called a new dentist because the last place we went was awful. They told me they are willing to put her under general so they can get her check up and cleaning done. Is this a normal procedure? How do you accomplish a dentist appointment
*her last dentist appointment, they strapped her into a board and she lost it, had a horrible melt down. By the time we left she had a busted lip, a cut on her gums, and scrapes and bruises all over her arms… read more

April 20, 2016
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Members shared deep empathy over a traumatic dentist visit where a toddler was strapped down, resulting in injuries, with many revealing they... Read more

Members shared deep empathy over a traumatic dentist visit where a toddler was strapped down, resulting in injuries, with many revealing they face similar struggles getting dental care for their children on the spectrum. Several members described practical approaches that have worked, including lap-to-lap positioning where the child sits in a parent's lap with their head in the hygienist's lap, preparing children by explaining each step before it happens, interviewing dentists about their treatment plans for autistic patients, and seeking pediatric dentists with autism experience who allow parents to stay in the room. A recurring theme was the difficult trade-off between avoiding traumatic restraint or anesthesia and maintaining necessary dental health, with many members admitting they delay or skip appointments entirely because gentle, autism-informed dentists are extremely hard to find.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Just horrified by your previous experience. Anesthesia isn't good for kids. If you can, get someone who is gentle and doesn't use anesthesia. Specially if it's just a check up and cleaning.

April 21, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

I worry constantly about my daughters teeth and going to the dentist. She will not let me brush them. I am sorry to hear about your experience.

April 21, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member
That is exactly how it is with our son. He is only 2 and he doesn't understand much only a few things. Explaining doesn't work at all. We just don't ever take him and I do the best I can to brush his teeth. I do have to gently force him but it only takes 10 or so seconds to get his teeth. I just can't imagine having him being tied down. And I wouldn't want him put under. He hasn't ever seen a dentist and I think it's not a good choice but I don't know what else to do right now.

April 21, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

Oh no! My son just had his first appointment at the age of five because I was afraid the doctor like MANY of the others wouldn't be patient with him. I lucked up and found a good dentist on the first go. No forcing, tying down, rushing...I wouldn’t trust a doctor that can't understand the needs of their clients. Please interview all potential doctors and ask about their treatment plan.

April 21, 2016
A MyAutismTeam Member

Mine went to the dentist for the first time a few years ago and never went back. Anesthesia was necessary for us, but I hated it and they wouldn't let me be in the room, I was terrified. No cavities, though. I'm currently looking for a dentist who has experience with autism or IDD, but they are very hard to find

April 21, 2016

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