Hi, I am also in California. My son is not yet school aged, but I was just hoping to offer some resources. Have you been in touch with Regional Centers? https://www.dds.ca.gov/rc/ That is where I started our journey. I know their services typically end by age 3, but, at the very least maybe they can point you in the direction for other resources and schools specializing in helping children who are on the spectrum or have some developmental concerns. Good luck!
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