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Racine, WI

My daughter loves her I pad. She could be on it all day if you let her. That has actually been the case lately. We try to take it away from her from time to time throughout the day but she has a temper tantrum when we try. A while back when I tell her " ok I pad is all done" she will give it to me with no problem. Now she doesn't want to hand it over at all unless it dies and I have to go charge it. Is anyone else going through this or has gone through this? If so, how did you get them to listen… read more

July 10, 2017
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Members shared strategies for managing iPad tantrums with their children, with many finding success through consistent schedules, visual... Read more

Members shared strategies for managing iPad tantrums with their children, with many finding success through consistent schedules, visual timers that count down to show when screen time will end, and redirecting to other activities during the initial difficult adjustment period. Several members described cutting back or eliminating recreational screen time entirely after noticing their children acted like they were addicted, while others acknowledged that communication apps like Proloquo make removing the device completely impractical for nonverbal children. A recurring theme was the importance of staying firm and consistent through the tears and testing, with many parents reassuring each other that children do eventually adapt when boundaries are clear and enforced every single time.

A MyAutismTeam Member

I'm new to the site as well and my daughter just turned 5 and she would be on hers all day couldn't get her to eat without it and it got so bad she even went potty with it. throw fits so bad it was hard to get it away best thing that ever happened she brought it in bathroom it fell in potty had to throw it away and never bought another one and she forgot all about it and is now more active.

July 11, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

Maybe try making the device limit the time so you aren't fighting all the time.

Use these instructions https://www.howtogeek.com/251365/how-to-set-a-s...

We realized our son just can't handle screen time at all. He acted like a junky even with as little as 30 minutes so we cut him off. He can only see tv or the iPad if he is sick and we need him to stay still all day. I think every kid is different I know tons of ASD and NT kids that handle it just fine, but man my kid whew.

Hope it helps!

July 10, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

The school used to use a timer for my son's ipad use there. They would sit it next to him so he could see it count down and he would know when time's up. At first, he melted down when the timer when off, but he got used to it and went along with their program.

July 14, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

I hate the Ipad and threw it in the yard at one point. My daughter spends most of her waking moments outside therapy with that disgusting device. We tell her with a countdown when we will take it from her and she will comply but she runs right back to it when she can. To me, it's just a pacifier and worse than TV or video games because other people can't watch as well so it doesn't help socialization but encourages isolation.

July 11, 2017
A MyAutismTeam Member

Thank you @A MyAutismTeam Member and @A MyAutismTeam Member! Both responses are very useful!

July 11, 2017

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