If you have a good pediatrician or developmental pediatrician in your area you might ask them. IF you can find a good counselor that will see both kids and adults then you will have someone you trust to take your child to get help with them also. Sometimes a counselor will want you to bring a child that your having issues with to a session with you to get to know them and see the struggles you deal with to better help. Hope this helps. (Email address can only be seen by the question and answer creators)