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Any Tips On First Trips To The Dentist?

A MyAutismTeam Member asked a question 💭
Detroit, MI

My son has his first dentist appointment coming up. We literally have zero idea what to expect - could be brilliant and handle like a champ, or super stressful. I called the dentist to ask questions beforehand, and she "assured" me that the doctors and staff are very skilled in handling a range of needs, developmental disabilities, children with autism, etc. She wasn't really entertaining my questions and my anxiety, just giving me "pat" statements, that were more on the lines of "don't worry… read more

April 28, 2018
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Members rallied around a parent preparing for their child's first dentist visit, sharing creative strategies that helped their own children... Read more

Members rallied around a parent preparing for their child's first dentist visit, sharing creative strategies that helped their own children feel more comfortable, including sitting on the chair together to make funny faces so the dentist could peek at teeth, watching YouTube videos and reading social stories beforehand, and even bringing children to the office for practice visits without appointments. Several members emphasized the importance of finding a patient, compassionate pediatric or special needs dentist who won't rush the process, with many sharing that it took multiple visits just to explore tools or sit in the chair before any actual exam could happen, and some found success with sedation options like laughing gas or ABA programs to gradually build tolerance. A recurring theme was trusting your gut about the provider, staying calm to help your child stay calm, clearly communicating your child's triggers and limits to the dentist upfront, and celebrating small victories like a brief look at teeth rather than expecting a full cleaning on the first try.

A MyAutismTeam Member

We watched a lot you tubes & read social stories! We also took pictures of the dentist & rooms

February 9, 2019
A MyAutismTeam Member

When I first took my son to the dentist he refused to open his mouth unless it was to scream at the dentist and push him away!!! This lasted about 5 minutes, then the dentist allowed me to sit on the chair with him and play games, the best thing that worked was when I sat him facing me and we opened our mouths and pulled funny faces at each other which allowed the dentist to see his teeth ;) good luck xxxx

April 28, 2018
A MyAutismTeam Member

Oh go to it, its maybe gonna be a tough one but to acomplish it is good. My son was just 3, he has white coat phobia. We do a kind restraint to see in his mouth ( my son is non verbal and non gestural so he affirms nothing and crying is all he can do to express himself)...she gets to see the bare minimum but can confirm baby teeth all in, no cracked teeth etc. Our son will have to try brushing more even though he hates it because a child like him will have to go under to have any procedures. Brushing is so important but its a fight with him. We need to improve this. X

April 30, 2018
A MyAutismTeam Member

All my dentist wanted to do was to look at Reeses teeth to make sure he had no issues. I'm just glad he hasn't found any so far :) not sure how he will react if the dentist has to actually do any work. Another thing that seemed to help Reese was it be could watch the dentist do what he wanted to do on mummy before he tried it on Reese :)

April 29, 2018
A MyAutismTeam Member

I woukd recommend a social story.

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