My daughter will threaten me in a very vague way, for example tell me a story about a girl and what she does to hurt her mother, and make sure I am very clear of who she is referring to
She will do this as a result of something upsetting her at school, or anger about a fair request I make
She might be upset at school and take it out on me in a cruel or threatening way, and hide it from others to avoid discussions about her feelings.
She may be pushing a boundary or “another inch” being wanty… read more
my daughter is 18 and if she does not get her way she will talk bad about everyone, and she tends to hit me, not anyone else. she feels she needs to control everyone. we are in therapy and everything with her. very hard thing to deal with. prayers of strength for all of us. I hope we can all find a happy medium with this behavior. you definitely are not alone! hugs to you both.
We all have resentment unless communication is comfortable . That's defiantly going to be the situation . Key is to create an environment to release tense feelings in a safe way towards you and others
Oh yea I kno, my son hits me everytime me or his mother say no to him i think uts just a phase but I'm thankful he doesn't hit his mom, hes 6 an even if shes tells him no he wont hit her hell find me (his dad) an hit me it's been hard to deal with at times especially in public