When you say go back to school do you mean High School ? If so, by law your child can stay until he's 21. At least that's how I remember it.
Here is information about post secondary education. Does he have an IEP? Do you think community college would be a good option for him?
https://www.autismspeaks.org/postsecondary-educ...
My son is in high school and I was told the same thing, by law he can stay in school until he's 21.
Yes true!