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Irish Dependent Visas for California Residents
If you are a resident of California who is looking to join a family member who is an Irish citizen or lawfully residing in Ireland, you may need to apply for a Join Family Long Stay 'D' Visa.
Eligible Family Members:
Spouse or Civil Partner.
De Facto Partner (cohabiting for at least 2 years).
Dependent Children (under 18, or under 23 and in full-time education).
Dependent Adult Relative (dependent due to serious medical/psychological issues

Visa Refusal: Your visa application may be refused if you fail to provide required documents, have a criminal record, or do not meet the eligibility criteria

Moving to Ireland with a dependent who has autism spectrum disorder (ASD) involves navigating Irish immigration procedures as well as accessing relevant support services.
1. Irish Dependent Visa:
Eligibility: To bring a dependent to Ireland under a visa, the sponsor (the person already residing in Ireland) must typically be an Irish citizen, married to an Irish citizen, or living in Ireland with certain immigration permissions (Stamps 1, 4, or 5).
Documentation: You'll need to demonstrate the dependency of the individual with autism on the sponsor. This may involve providing evidence of financial dependence or assistance needed due to their disability, supported by medical or psychological reports.
Application Process: The specific process can vary depending on individual circumstances and the sponsor's residency status. Generally, you'll need to complete an online visa application and submit supporting documents, potentially including proof of relationship, financial capability, and the dependent's condition