Our 4 year old tends to throw his tablet when he gets upset, we take it and set a timer for 30 seconds, then a minute. Sometimes it helps to redirect him while we "clean the tablet". Helps me if I breathe slow because I get stressed too. You got this!
Have him analyzed for possible hormonal imbalances. Hormonal therapy has helped me tremendously! I learned my body produces too much Cortisol and not enough Progesterone. Through hormonal therapy I haven’t had a meltdown in almost three years!
You and his parents are going to have to find a cheaper way to help him regulate. I rarely melt down and when I do I typically go take a nap; but that may not help your grandson's case. I think you're going to need a counselor to help figure this one out.
I do find music practice and bike rides to be enormously helpful.
https://autism.org/meltdowns-calming-techniques...
To stop an autistic meltdown, focus on ensuring safety and reducing sensory input by moving to a quiet space with dim lights and minimal noise. Remain calm and speak softly, give them space without forcing interaction, and offer comfort items like a weighted blanket or fidget toy. Avoid making demands, and once they start to calm down, provide gentle, positive reinforcement
How can you protect iPads or tablets from damage during meltdowns?
While the search results don't specifically address protective cases or device safety during meltdowns, here are some practical strategies to consider:
Physical Protection Options
- Invest in heavy-duty, shock-resistant cases designed for children with Show Full Answer