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My husband has been helping me a lot but I wish I am back to my normal self. I’ve been turning down invitations to family gatherings. I even missed my son’s college graduation.

Any tips or suggestions aside from doctors’ advice or orders? I’m on 6 different medications already.

June 6
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A MyAutismTeam Member

I would just say diet, exercise, and getting outdoors (sunshine and fresh air) could help. I'm sorry that you're having a rough go of things, but hope things get better for you. ❤️

June 22
A MyAutismTeam Member

As far as menopause and premenopause, having a good diet,exercise, sleep routine is essential.

June 7
A MyAutismTeam Member

Hugs, my friend! ❤️ There's no better feeling than that of feeling like YOURSELF. I hope you find your way back to how you were feeling before.

June 6
MyAutismTeam

It sounds like you're going through a really tough time, and it's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed. Missing your son's graduation must have been heartbreaking, and it's clear how much you want to feel like yourself again. You're not alone in this.

For autistic people, anxiety and social withdrawal can feel Show Full Answer

It sounds like you're going through a really tough time, and it's completely understandable to feel overwhelmed. Missing your son's graduation must have been heartbreaking, and it's clear how much you want to feel like yourself again. You're not alone in this.

For autistic people, anxiety and social withdrawal can feel especially intense. Here are some gentle, practical tips that may help alongside your current treatment:

- Ease back into social situations slowly — start with very small, low-pressure gatherings rather than big events
- Create a sensory-friendly environment at home — soft lighting, calming sounds, or a quiet space just for you
- Stick to routines — predictable daily schedules can reduce anxiety significantly
- Try mindfulness or breathing exercises — even 5 minutes a day can help regulate emotions
- Journaling — writing down feelings can help process emotions without social pressure
- Gentle movement — short walks or stretching can naturally ease anxiety
- Lean on your husband — having a trusted support person for social events can make them feel safer

It's also worth having an open conversation with your doctor about how your current medications are affecting your quality of life, especially since you're on six. You deserve to feel better. 💛

June 6
A MyAutismTeam Member

I also am in perimenopause. I am fatigued, snappy, and angry a lot. I am not sure what helps a lot. Rest helps and not being overwhelmed with too much on my plate when those things can happen.

June 9 (edited)

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