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OK My son does writing and wondering whether I should reward him for doing so much

June 20
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Members shared a variety of reward strategies for children on the spectrum, particularly around encouraging tasks like handwriting practice.... Read more

Members shared a variety of reward strategies for children on the spectrum, particularly around encouraging tasks like handwriting practice. Several members described using token boards, first-then visual cards, and personalized rewards like choosing a restaurant, art supplies, or extra screen time, with one member sharing a creative Lord of the Rings themed system that worked well for their colleague's child. A recurring theme was that rewards work best when they are personalized to the child's interests, paired with warm verbal praise, and that sometimes simple gestures like hugs, high fives, or a parent showing genuine interest in their child's work can be the most meaningful reward of all.

A MyAutismTeam Member

Hugs, high fives, verbal praise, computer time, and bigger accomplishments, Door Dash or Dave & Buster's.

June 25
A MyAutismTeam Member

Yes i use visuals of what we are doing today and show the reward at the end. Once we are all done with each actiivity he gets something when we get home. Sometimes its an art supply or a location like splash pad or even fried chicken and anything that he asked before. I also use the " first and "then" card and also say it verbally. I cant say it works everday, but it has been helpful. I also make sure he wont be able to get this card from me because he will rip apart 😅

June 24
A MyAutismTeam Member

Hugs, Verbal Positive Reinforcements.

June 22
A MyAutismTeam Member

As you can see by the research links this is a much communicated subject

Growing up I had a sticker book and a box of accomplishments certificate

https://www.autismparentingmagazine.com/autism-...

https://www.autismspecialtygroup.com/blog/rewar...

https://www.handscenter.com/effective-reward-sy...

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3682440/

Popular Frameworks & IdeasToken Economy / Token Boards: Children earn tokens (checkmarks, stickers, or stars) for specific behaviors, which they can later trade in for a larger prize or preferred activity.First-Then Boards: A highly visual, low-stress method using icons or text to show that after the child completes a non-preferred task ("first"), they immediately receive their reward ("then").Creative Motivating Rewards: Rewards do not have to be costly or tangible. They can be activity-based—such as extra iPad time, special time with a favorite person, choosing dinner, or participating in a special interest like a sensory break.Best Practices for ImplementationPersonalize Heavily: Use the individual's "special interests" (e.g., specific topics or hobbies) as the ultimate reinforcer to guarantee high motivation.Be Immediate and Specific: Pair the reward with specific, enthusiastic verbal praise so the child links the exact behavior to the positive consequence (e.g., "Great job putting your shoes away!").Evolve and Fade: As preferences change or the behavior becomes a natural habit, slowly fade out the external rewards to encourage intrinsic

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June 21
A MyAutismTeam Member

@A MyAutismTeam Member My son is low functioning and traces letter and is just starting handwriting but he does love it when I look at his work or help encourage him to next letter

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