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What a frustrating situation — and honestly, "everyone will want one" is not a valid legal reason to deny your child support. That's not how the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) works. Your son's needs are individual, and his IEP must reflect that.

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What a frustrating situation — and honestly, "everyone will want one" is not a valid legal reason to deny your child support. That's not how the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) works. Your son's needs are individual, and his IEP must reflect that.

Other MyAutismTeam members have successfully advocated for 1-on-1 aides, and here's what has helped them:

- Get everything documented — doctor's notes, therapist evaluations, and written observations from anyone supporting your son
- Be specific about safety and functional needs — pull-ups, inability to transition independently, and sensory challenges are concrete, documentable needs
- Frame it around his individual needs, not a general request — the school must show *his* needs can be met another way if they deny it
- Consider hiring a professional advocate or special education attorney — especially given the pushback you're already facing. One MyAutismTeam member called it "expensive but well-worth-it"
- Put all requests in writing — emails create a paper trail that matters if things escalate
- Request an IEP meeting formally, in writing, and come prepared with your documentation

The class doubling in size with no added adults is also worth raising explicitly in the IEP meeting as a safety concern. It may also help to connect with other North Texas parents who've navigated this. MyAutismTeam members in your area may have firsthand experience with specific districts and advocates who know the local landscape well — that kind of local knowledge can be invaluable.

You clearly know your son's needs. Trust that, and keep pushing. 💪

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